Female Led Relationships Are Usually A Disaster

 

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There are certain qualities that make masculinity and femininity attractive. Masculinity is not about following nor is femininity about control.

There are certain qualities that are hardwired into our DNA. Despite social changes, this DNA wiring still exists as it did tens of thousands of years ago. Men fulfilled certain roles and women fulfilled certain roles. They worked in perfect harmony, neither one necessarily superior to the other. If you think about a ying-yang you don’t try to decipher if white is better than black. They are two parts of the same pie that represent different things and work together harmoniously. However, society has gotten this idea that white is better than black or black is better than white. This type of thinking has caused 3rd wave feminism and a whole stew of bullshit.

 

Submission Isn’t Bad

Women who are afraid to submit to a male led relationship are often overlooking the benefits of submission. In business, submission is often a form of power. When you submit and let others take the lead, you no longer have to delegate others and are alleviated from a lot of stress or responsibility that you don’t need. Being the leader means stress, responsibility and often times extreme amounts of anxiety. When you let your male partner lead the relationship, you can focus on other things instead of trying to control him or being a “strong empowered woman” a.k.a mostly useless stress.

Leading A Man Is Unattractive

The overwhelming truth is that most female dominated or led relationships just simply don’t work. There is nothing attractive to either party about the female being in control or leading. Men who are led feel emasculated and resentful. Women who lead lose attraction for the male and views him as weak. Even though many women want to control their men, if they achieve it they often feel completely unattracted to him after time- it’s a double edged self sabotaging sword. Most women still want a man who is masculine and that means he has balls and stands up for himself. It also means that he sets the ground work and isn’t some doe-eyed spineless love obsessed boy who likes getting walked over. Don’t believe me? Well, try controlling your next man and see how long it takes for you to lose all sexual attraction for him. I’ll give it 6 months to 2 years.

What’s Wrong With Being A Woman?

The final point to look at here, is what’s wrong with being a woman? What’s wrong with doing “traditionally” female traits in the first place? It’s in a woman’s DNA to be nurturing and empathetic. It’s in her DNA to keep a “nest” in order. Why do women feel the need to defy their own biology? Now, that’s not to say you can’t be a career woman or do something different – but why do you need to dominate men? Is it because society preaches the bullshit called feminism? Is it because if you don’t control your man you don’t feel 21st century enough? People are generally happier when they follow their biology instead of trying to rebel against it. It’s like a cat trying to juggle tomatoes – what the fuck is the point? Perhaps this is why women’s happiness rating has been on the decline despite more opportunities than ever. Try letting a man take the lead in your relationship, after time you will respect him more and you will feel more natural as a woman – possibly even happier perhaps?